Hi Everybody,
Have you heard that song by Tim McGraw, ‘I hope you get the chance to live like you were dying.’ The words hit me like a ton of bricks the first time I heard them. Some of you might know my husband Terry. He was diagnosed with cancer in 2003. It was relatively advanced and the doctors said I should help him get his things in order. I can tell you it rocked my world. Happily, he is still with me and is still harassing me on a daily basis but you will never hear me complain. The reason I tell you this is not to get sympathy but to share with you what the incredible power of positive attitude has done for me and my life. There are so many times when I think I was the one, not him, who was helped, I was the one who learned about living life and appreciating that gift in a way I never understood before, and I was the one who learned how useless and paralyzing my own fear was.
To illustrate, there was a real estate meeting in Denver (about an hour away) a couple weeks after his surgery. Now he was looking at recovery from this surgery and chemotherapy and yet he wanted to go. While we were there, the man running that meeting offered a mentorship program. The cost was $10,000. and it was a full year program. Now understand, Terry was not supposed to make it another year. But he was determined and it was my first lesson of how powerful his attitude was in his recovery and by extension my own. He went through that mentorship year, became an expert in creative real estate strategies while battling his disease, recovered and made quantum leaps in our investing business. Although I was not the one with the disease, I feel like I was the one who recovered. I was the one given this gift.
I have learned in a very real sense that attitude is everything. There will always be things that I am sorry I have done. I know there are times when I have been insensitive and hurt a friend or family member inadvertantly. But, I have decided that although I regret some things I have done, when I die I will not regret the things I did not do.
Taking a lesson from my husband Terry, you just never know about life or what your future holds for you. So while you are here on this earth, you MUST fulfill your dreams and aspirations and you must live every day like it is your last. This is the same mentality that gave me the courage to walk away from a secure teaching job and pursue something brand new. There was no point in me dragging myself to a job that was no longer fulfilling to me and brought me no joy. That is merely existing. I wanted to be like the people I knew who made good money and loved what they were doing. Can you imagine working hard for YOURSELF and calling your own shots? I can tell you first hand that there is nothing like it. I am very proud of myself for tackling my fears of the unknown and making the transition from employee to Investor. I can’t quite explain the feeling, so instead I want you to feel it for yourself!
If you are looking for a change and you are ready to experience the joys of calling your own shots and working towards creating wealth for you and your family, then sign up for my next seminar on March 21nd at www.coloradorealestatesecrets.com Get “Rich-N- Fit” with the Queen! Can you really afford not to?
With your prosperity and success in mind,
Until next time,
Diana